Emergency Travel Supplies: Cuff Links and Collar Stays
I’m not the kind of guy who travels with a lot of crap. My dopp kit has some shaving oil, a cartridge razor, a bit of facial moisturizer. And two emergency provisions: some collar stays and a pair of cuff links.
The collar stays ended up in the kit when I found myself at my in-laws house, 600 miles from home, the day before my wedding, and realized I had left home without anything to keep my collar from curling on the most important day of my life. I raced out to a store I usually avoid like the plague, Jos. A. Bank, and bought a little box of plastic stays. They’ve been in my kit ever since, and I’ve never had to worry about forgetting stays again.
Something similar happened to me at a public radio programming conference a year or two later. I’m not a regular suit wearer, but when I’m at a business function, I’ll wear a suit, and with it a double-cuff shirt. I almost always remember to bring a set of cufflinks, but this time, I didn’t, and found myself getting dressed the first day, forced to leave my cuffs unattached.
A few weeks later, I found the above links on eBay for $20 or $30, and leave them in my dopp kit. They’re simple, go with anything, and anytime I forget to bring the perfect links, I’ve got something on hand. Or perhaps I should say on wrist.
By the way - if you watch season two of Put This On, take a look at my shirt cuffs, and you’ll see what prompted me two write this post.

Emergency Travel Supplies: Cuff Links and Collar Stays

I’m not the kind of guy who travels with a lot of crap. My dopp kit has some shaving oil, a cartridge razor, a bit of facial moisturizer. And two emergency provisions: some collar stays and a pair of cuff links.

The collar stays ended up in the kit when I found myself at my in-laws house, 600 miles from home, the day before my wedding, and realized I had left home without anything to keep my collar from curling on the most important day of my life. I raced out to a store I usually avoid like the plague, Jos. A. Bank, and bought a little box of plastic stays. They’ve been in my kit ever since, and I’ve never had to worry about forgetting stays again.

Something similar happened to me at a public radio programming conference a year or two later. I’m not a regular suit wearer, but when I’m at a business function, I’ll wear a suit, and with it a double-cuff shirt. I almost always remember to bring a set of cufflinks, but this time, I didn’t, and found myself getting dressed the first day, forced to leave my cuffs unattached.

A few weeks later, I found the above links on eBay for $20 or $30, and leave them in my dopp kit. They’re simple, go with anything, and anytime I forget to bring the perfect links, I’ve got something on hand. Or perhaps I should say on wrist.

By the way - if you watch season two of Put This On, take a look at my shirt cuffs, and you’ll see what prompted me two write this post.

mostexerent:

keep it simple..
Ladies - stay away from men that have novelty links or anything..

Nobody keeps it simple better than GW.

mostexerent:

keep it simple..

Ladies - stay away from men that have novelty links or anything..

Nobody keeps it simple better than GW.

Andrew emailed us about this Etsy seller. She’ll make you cuff links using maps of any two towns in the world. I’m not nuts about toggle-backed cuff links (I prefer double-sided), and I’m ambivalent about non-precious metal jewelry, but the product looks really lovely. They’re made to order, so I’m guessing if you had a finer jewel in mind, the seller might accommodate.

Andrew emailed us about this Etsy seller. She’ll make you cuff links using maps of any two towns in the world. I’m not nuts about toggle-backed cuff links (I prefer double-sided), and I’m ambivalent about non-precious metal jewelry, but the product looks really lovely. They’re made to order, so I’m guessing if you had a finer jewel in mind, the seller might accommodate.

It’s On eBay
Modernist Sterling Cufflinks
Start at $49.99, end Sunday

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Modernist Sterling Cufflinks

Start at $49.99, end Sunday

Q and Answer: Cufflinks
Kaelyn writes: Are cufflinks formal? If so, when can they be worn? And further, where can someone find a well-made, fair priced pair of them?
Cufflinks are indeed general more formal.  Or, to be more accurate, French or double cuffed shirts are more formal than barrel (button) cuffed shirts.  A good general rule is that double-cuff shirts shouldn’t be worn with anything less formal than a suit. 
In some offices or contexts, a linked cuff might be seen as flashy.  Of course, this depends in part on what style of cufflinks we’re talking about.  The simplest, like a silk knot, are much less flashy than a big fat diamond.  A plain shirt with silk knots is appropriate pretty much anywhere a suit is appropriate.
Cufflinks are one of a couple of things that I really think are best bought second-hand.  They’re plentiful on the vintage market, and much less expensive as well.  Check out this previous post on cuff links for more details.  I like mother of pearl for utility.

Q and Answer: Cufflinks

Kaelyn writes: Are cufflinks formal? If so, when can they be worn? And further, where can someone find a well-made, fair priced pair of them?

Cufflinks are indeed general more formal.  Or, to be more accurate, French or double cuffed shirts are more formal than barrel (button) cuffed shirts.  A good general rule is that double-cuff shirts shouldn’t be worn with anything less formal than a suit. 

In some offices or contexts, a linked cuff might be seen as flashy.  Of course, this depends in part on what style of cufflinks we’re talking about.  The simplest, like a silk knot, are much less flashy than a big fat diamond.  A plain shirt with silk knots is appropriate pretty much anywhere a suit is appropriate.

Cufflinks are one of a couple of things that I really think are best bought second-hand.  They’re plentiful on the vintage market, and much less expensive as well.  Check out this previous post on cuff links for more details.  I like mother of pearl for utility.

It’s On eBay
Vintage Deakin & Francis Enamel & Silver Cuff Links
Starts at $75 (with reserve), ends Monday

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Vintage Deakin & Francis Enamel & Silver Cuff Links

Starts at $75 (with reserve), ends Monday

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14K Gold and Mother of Pearl Cuff Links
Start at $9.99, end Sunday

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14K Gold and Mother of Pearl Cuff Links

Start at $9.99, end Sunday

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Gold & Mother of Pearl Cufflink & Stud Set
I really don’t think it gets much more elegant than this.  Spectacular.
Starts at $9.99, ends Sunday

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Gold & Mother of Pearl Cufflink & Stud Set

I really don’t think it gets much more elegant than this.  Spectacular.

Starts at $9.99, ends Sunday

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Victorian abalone cufflinks
I always prefer double-sided links, and mother of pearl or abalone is a lovely choice.  Elegant and appropriate for almost any situation.
Starting at $18.99, ends Wednesday

It’s On eBay

Victorian abalone cufflinks

I always prefer double-sided links, and mother of pearl or abalone is a lovely choice.  Elegant and appropriate for almost any situation.

Starting at $18.99, ends Wednesday